Question

Form pairs. Each person in the pair writes down a simple story, news item, report, etc. Then one of the partners tries to tell it to the other person. The other person shows through gestures that he is not interested - by yawning, looking away, frowning, doing something else, etc. 

Repeat the activity after changing the roles of the listener and the speaker. Then prepare two tables.

• How to be a good listener.
• How NOT to be a good listener.

Answer 1

Instructions:

1. Form pairs. Each person in the pair writes down a simple story, news item, report, or any short passage.
2. One partner reads their passage aloud while the other partner listens.
3. The listener should initially show signs of disinterest using body language, such as:
   • Yawning
   • Looking away
   • Frowning
   • Doing something else (like fidgeting)
4. Repeat the activity, but this time, the listener should actively engage by:
   • Maintaining eye contact
   • Nodding occasionally
   • Asking relevant questions
   • Smiling and reacting appropriately
5. Task:
   After completing both rounds, work together to prepare two tables

How to Be a Good Listener

Do's	Examples
Maintain eye contact	Look at the speaker attentively.
Nod occasionally	Show understanding and agreement.
Respond appropriately	Say things like "I see," "That’s interesting," or ask relevant questions.
Show facial expressions	Smile, raise eyebrows in interest, or show concern when needed.
Stay focused	Avoid distractions like checking your phone or looking away.
Encourage the speaker	Say "Go on," "Tell me more," or "I’m listening."
Ask questions	Show curiosity by asking relevant questions.
Be patient	Let the speaker finish without interrupting.

How NOT to Be a Good Listener

Don’ts	Examples
Look away or avoid eye contact	Staring at your phone or looking at the ceiling.
Yawn or act bored	Showing signs of disinterest like sighing or fidgeting.
Interrupt the speaker	Cutting them off before they finish.
Show negative facial expressions	Frowning, rolling eyes, or looking annoyed.
Do something else while listening	Playing with objects, texting, or talking to someone else.
Respond with disinterest	Saying "Whatever," "So what?" or not responding at all.
Change the topic suddenly	Ignoring what the speaker said and talking about something unrelated.