Question

Ramesh and his friends are planning to skip their classes and go for a movie instead. Ramesh is worried as he feels that it is not right to skip the class without informing his parents. But at the same time, he does not want to be seen as a spoilsport by his friends. Finally, he succumbed to the peer pressure. Now, he is disturbed to think what would happen if his parents come to know of it.

Questions

• Why was Ramesh worried?
• Was his conduct appropriate? Explain your answer.
• Can you suggest some ways to get out of this conflicting situation?
• What would you do, if you were in Ramesh’s place?
• Do you think the yogic principles of Yama (restraint) and Niyama (observance) help to develop control on our desires and emotions and lessen our stress?

Answer 1

• Ramesh felt that skipping class without telling his parents was wrong. He was also worried that his parents might find out and that his friends might consider him a spoilsport if he refused.
• No. He gave in to peer pressure and skipped class without informing his parents. He should have acted according to his judgement and responsibilities.
• He could calmly tell his friends that he does not want to miss class and suggest meeting them after school.
  He could explain his concern honestly and ask a trusted adult for advice if the pressure continues.
• I would politely refuse to skip class, explain that I do not want to deceive my parents, and suggest another time to watch the movie. If I had already skipped, I would be honest with my parents and take responsibility.
• Yes. Yama and Niyama encourage self-restraint, truthfulness, good habits, contentment and self-discipline. Practising these principles can help us manage desires and emotions, make responsible choices and reduce stress.