Question

Scholars find son preference as a common phenomenon in many developing countries, including India, China and Pakistan. Do you find this phenomenon in your family or neighbourhood? Why do people practise discrimination between male and female children? What do you think about it? Discuss it in the classroom.

Answer 1

Yes, son preference can still be seen in some families and communities, though attitudes are changing gradually. People may discriminate between male and female children because of:

• Traditional belief that sons carry forward the family name.
• Expectation that sons will support parents in old age.
• Social customs related to marriage and dowry.
• Belief that sons are more economically useful.
• Traditionally lower value placed on girls’ education and employment.
• Deep-rooted patriarchal attitudes in society.

Such discrimination is unfair and harmful. Boys and girls should receive equal nutrition, education, healthcare, freedom and opportunities. Girls can contribute equally to the family, society and economy.

Thus, son preference should be discouraged through education, awareness, equal opportunities for girls and strict implementation of laws against gender discrimination.